Treating the Side-Effects of Unemployment

Treating the Side-Effects of UnemploymentWhile tips on networking and crafting the perfect resume and cover letter appear online day in and day out, the elements of self-care that go into a job search are no less important Writer Amy-Louise Goldberg proffers up her 6 Ps for managing job-search stress. Briefly, they are planning, persistence, perspective, positivity, physical attentiveness and phriends and phamily. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) Planning is leid only a great tool for mapping out the logistics of your job search strategyfinding open positions, preparing your materials, applying and following up appropriatelybut is also a terrific way to alleviate anxiety and that feeling of helplessness that often pervades a period of unemployment. Theres something about writing out a to-do list with checkboxes that leads to a feeling of relief. Dont be afraid to write out even the smallest steps on a bad daychecking off take a shower an d eat breakfast can give you that little jolt of accomplishment you need tackle the bigger tasks of the day. Plan long-term for the next few months, and short-term for the next few days when one list stymies you, you can find something on the other to get you moving again.Be persistent in your search Goldberg suggestions managing your expectations by assuming a conservative average hit rate of one interview per 15 resumes sent, and one interview per 15 contacts generated. On the positive side, assume that half that number1 in 8-interviewsmay yield an offer (since you already made it to the interview stage). Hold on to your sense of perspective as wellits a tough climate, but not an impossible for a tenacious job-seeker. Instead of beating yourself up for each setback or letdown, each unanswered emaille or awkward interview, focus on what each experience has taught you. You can even practice developing narratives about a time you overcame an obstacle to bring out in future interviews .Taking care of yourself physically is as important as preparing yourself on paper make sure youre getting enough sleep, good nutrition, and exercise to keep your spirits up and your body healthy. Something as simple as weekly yoga, a daily walk, or a break to stand up and stretch every hour may help keep you tuned up.Another element of being unemployed that takes a toll is the feeling of isolation everyone else is going off to work at more or less regular hours, and its easy to feel left behind. Thats why Goldberg recommends phriends and phamily as the final piece of the piestay in touch with friends and former colleagues. Even an article with read this and thought of you can help you feel connected and keep conversations ongoing. Find running buddies among your freelancing and fellow job-seeking friends meet up for apply-athons in local cafes or take turns hosting one another at home. You arent alone, and this isnt forever. Take good care of yourself and the job search will follow